Posing Tips (and Why You Don’t Need to Worry About Them)

We can’t tell you how many times couples show up to their session a little nervous, blurting out something like, “We’re so awkward in photos. We have no idea how to pose!” Honestly? That’s our favorite thing to hear because it means you’re normal.

Here’s the thing: the more we pose people, the more awkward they look. Every single time. Picture this: we tell a couple, “Okay, stand here, put your hand here, chin down, smile… no, not like that… shoulders back… perfect.” And suddenly, they look like Barbie and Ken who just came out of the box—arms stiff, eyes glazed, and both of them silently wondering what to do with their pinky fingers.

It’s funny because the second we ditch the “perfect pose” and just say, “Hey, walk toward us like you’re tipsy leaving Taco Bell at midnight,” boom—the magic happens. They laugh, bump into each other, maybe one trips a little, and suddenly it’s the cutest, most natural photo ever.

That’s how we roll. Our sessions aren’t about memorizing Pinterest poses or practicing in the mirror. They’re about creating real moments that feel like you. And if you think you’re awkward? Great. Awkward usually equals fun, and fun always photographs beautifully.

A few of our go-to tricks:

✨ Movement over perfection. Walking, spinning, running, piggyback rides—it all looks way better than stiff standing.

✨ Closing the gap. If there’s space between you, we’re going to tell you to close it. Foreheads, hips, shoulders—snuggle in.

✨ Laughing on purpose. Even if it’s fake at first, it always turns into the real thing.

✨ The forehead lean. Close your eyes, breathe in, forehead to forehead. It always looks romantic.

✨ The almost kiss. Right before a kiss, stop. That anticipation is gold.

✨ The walk-away. Hold hands, walk away from us, then sneak a look back at each other. Insta-worthy every time.

✨ The bear hug. Squeeze each other like you mean it. Bonus points if someone’s feet leave the ground.

✨ The whisper. Say the silliest thing you can think of in your partner’s ear. It almost always leads to belly laughs.

✨ The nose nuzzle. Forget the kiss—just rub noses like you’re penguins. Adorable and playful.

✨ The twirl. Spin your partner like you’re on the dance floor. Extra points if they giggle or stumble a little.

✨ The sneak attack hug. Run up behind your person and wrap them up. Candid, cute, and so fun.

✨ The “dip.” You don’t need to nail the perfect ballroom dip. Even a clumsy half-dip usually ends with laughter and the best shots.

✨ The slow dance. No music needed—just sway together like no one’s watching.

So no, you don’t need to stress about posing. You don’t even need to think about it. We’ll guide you, hype you up, and make sure you look incredible without the mannequin arms. Your job is simple: show up, be yourselves, and let us worry about the rest.

If you’re ready for photos that feel fun, natural, and totally you, let’s make it happen. Reach out and get your session on the calendar—we’ll bring the tips, the laughs, and maybe even a late-night Taco Bell reference or two.